Asking for our desires to be met
Most of us ask for our desires to be met in ways that ensure that others don’t want to meet them. We complain cajole, or ask for the bare minimum. Naturally, after they resist meeting us, we feel justified in the claim that they don’t really love us and don’t really care about us. We […]
Authentic = Emotionally Exposed
One of our deepest desires as humans to be seen, heard, and known. Yet, we simultaneously do everything in our power to not let others see us. Just like we showed mom our good grades to receive approval, as adults we have the same goal, just a different strategy. We show others our good jobs, […]
Your boundary is not the problem. Closing your heart is
A lot of us experience a false dichotomy in our minds. We think we must either allow people to walk all over us OR we must dominate them so that they treat us with respect. We grew up in an environment where love was given or withheld based on our behavior or even our emotional […]
The root cause of your problems
On the surface, it looks like you have many sorts of problems. Maybe we have the problem that we don’t have enough money to pay for the rent. Maybe we are having a hard time eating healthy and losing weight. Perhaps we don’t get along with our parents, siblings, or coworkers. Perhaps we are living […]
The World Within
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